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Day 12 – TRUTHFUL
Today, letโs embrace radical honesty in a genuine and respectful way.
Today, letโs embrace radical honesty in a genuine and respectful way.
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I donโt need to remember untruths, feeling bad about carrying this baggage around all the time with me itโs exhausting. If you get caught that person will never trust you again. Itโs about speaking from your heart not matter how bad. Being your authentic self is who you need to be and show that at all times.
You will grow like a field of bamboo sprouts in spring. You exchange the extremely short term benefits for the by far plentifuller reward of the future. Head and emotional pool become cleaner. Your confidence rises. By beeing honest you express your respect. If you considered lying for yourself then you show respect towards yourself, because you believe in your capabilities to handle whatยดs real and that you are good the way you are. If you intended lying for someone elses stake then you might end up parenting them. Acting under the assumption the are not able to handle reality. You actively undermine the possibility that they could. You let them fail without even etting them try. Also you take every possibility to grow on their challenges up to the point where the can actually handle it.
Honesty is a radical expression of respect for others and trust in yourself. Honesty is life. Lying is decay.
The benefits are that that person will then be truthful with you and you can move on in your relationship.
Stand your truth and laugh at your mistakes
The greatest benefit of being honest is that you never have to second guess, add to or try to remember what the lie was, the truth stands uncompromised!
I am working on being more honest in my endeavors and especially my relationships. Today’s challenge seems like a hard on…undo an untruth-WOOO!
For me personally? I feel more at peace. I am pretty conflict averse, so being able to really speak my truth can be quite challenging for me at times. A situation that came up was with a family member. I won’t go into full details here.The conversation was tough, it was years and years overdue. But in the end it ended up being really healing and therapeutic for the both of us because it caused us to look at nature of relationship and realise where things needed to change. Being honest about it all, although incredibly difficult, released a TON of stuff for me that I didn’t even necessarily realise I was holding on to. It also allowed our relationship to shift to a healthier place for the both of us.
I wrote these down on paper and will complete tomorrow