I am RESILIENT

Day 12 – RESILIENT

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Today, let's transform our fear of change into a love that inspires us to take chances.

14 thoughts on “Day 12 – RESILIENT”

  1. The situation that I found out was difficult was when I was in his husband father and children is cheating on me I was devastated. I thought, how can you cheat on me And beat me up on a weekly basis to. I was so full of fear, not knowing what I was going to do. Where was I going to live, how would I feed myself? I had no job or skills. I was a mom of three children, that was all I knew.
    When he left he took the last $10 out of my purse, spit in my face and told me to go find some man in the bar for my next place to stay. I was scared and he had taken my children also. Nice going crazy and I tried to commit suicide. My self talk told me I was worthless and there was no way of resolving this situation.
    The way the situation was resolved was the person he was cheating on me with moved in with him and we got divorced. It was a blessing in disguise. They are married now, I am remarried also. I got the better end of the deal. I’m married t9 my high school sweetheart. We separated after high school because he went into army . He became a counterintelligence agent and a man that I always wished for.. Thank God..

  2. I have been working on healing for some time now from trauma in early childhood. See my real father molested my older Half-sister who was his Step-Daughter. This sent our family into pure turmoil at a very young age for me. However, until now, I hadn’t realized how tumultuous my early childhood actually was.
    Pennee’s mother and older sister had already been battling for the Father’s attention and love before Pennee was born than after she came into the picture it was all envy and jealousy because the love the father felt for his firstborn baby girl could not compare to any other, it was pure and Pennee loved her father just as much. She doesn’t know when her mom started hating her or resenting her but it happened, and she went through emotional and physical abuse an even into adulthood. Finally, at almost 40 she was shown the whole picture. She and the father are starting to heal as her mom disappeared and not because Pennee told her mom to go away but because her mom just quit talking to her. The last time Pennee saw her mother she watched as the Monster left her and became her mother. No longer was Pennee this monster she grew up believing she was Finally the real monster took its form and Pennee’s heart breaks.

  3. After 10 years of working in one subgroup, she was transitioned out of the team she knew into another subgroup. She felt that she wasn’t doing anything right because her peer who was now managing the new subgroup was always frustrated at how she communicated with him and his staff. She thought she did everything she could and couldn’t understand why everyone was frustrated with her when it was never her decision to leave the group that way. She had a heart to heart discussion with her peer and expressed her pain and frustration. He peer didn’t even realize he was causing her frustration or that she was distraught over being transitioned into another team. They were able to work things out and move forward once they understood their intentions.

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